Sample Letter for Religious Organization

(It is common for the leader of a religious organization to speak about one of their congregants need for a kidney transplant. After one such situation, the individual followed up with this letter. You could make changes to reflect your personal situation.)


This is probably the most difficult letter I’ve written.  You see, I am in need of a kidney transplant, and I need to let my friends and family know about my condition.

I went on the kidney transplant waiting list three months ago.  Recently, I have had to start dialysis, and  I go to the dialysis clinic 3 days a week. I’m hooked up to the machine for three and a half hours. By the time I travel to and come home, I’ve spent most of my day, and when I do get home I’m often very tired. Being on dialysis is physically and emotionally draining.

Kidney failure runs in my family.  Aside from my kidneys I am in good health.  I’ve been very active in my community, volunteering at my Church and at the local school. I’ve had more than 10 people genuinely offer to be tested to donate – but almost all of them had the wrong blood type and several were ruled out for health reasons.

I am pursuing a living donor for two main reasons, (but there are many others,) kidneys from living donors last, on average, twice as long as kidneys from deceased donors and the waiting list for a deceased donor kidney could be more than 5 years.  Most people can donate who don’t have high blood pressure, cardiac problems or some other medical condition.

Here’s some basic information about kidney donation:

  • We are born with an extra kidney – you only need one to live a full, healthy, long life.
  • The majority of the donor surgery is done laproscopically, with tiny incisions.
  • The recuperation period is generally 2 weeks for those with a desk job and 6 weeks for those whose job entails heavy lifting.
  • The surgery would be done at a hospital that has some of the best surgeons in the country.
  • All medical expenses would be paid by my insurance benefits.
  • Most donors say if they had another extra kidney they would donate again in a heartbeat and that it is one of the best experiences of their life.

Would you please consider giving the Gift of Love and hope?  Please call me and I will send you an information packet that will help you make a well-informed decision. Or, if you would like to explore this in more detail before you let me know about your decision, you could call the ABC Hospital and ask for Sue Smith, my Transplant Coordinator. You could let them know about your interest in being a living donor to one of their patients, and you will not have to disclose my name at this time.

Thanks for your support and concern.

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Harvey Mysel, Founder & President

Harvey established the LKDN after recognizing the need for better resources while pursuing a successful living kidney transplant in 2006. Our purpose is to share knowledge and build the confidence to enable the life changing benefits of living donation. Click here to learn more about Harvey.

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